Advice
How to make friends after moving to a new city
Moving city can feel lonely at first. The fastest way to build a social circle is to combine repeatable local routines with friendly online introductions.
Read guide →If you are introverted, you can still make friends by choosing structured activities, keeping conversations simple, and building connection through repeated contact. You do not need to be outgoing - you need consistency and a plan.
Being introverted does not mean you are bad at friendships. It usually means you prefer smaller groups, deeper conversation, and time to recharge. The best approach is to choose situations that match that.
Classes, volunteering, book groups, walking groups, and hobby meetups work well because the activity carries the social load.
Try: "How did you get into this?" or "Any tips for a beginner?" You only need one question to start a friendly chat.
Look for one person you click with. Friendships build faster when you focus on a small number of people.
Try: "I'm coming again next week - want to join?" Repeatable invitations feel natural and do not require big confidence.
Online introductions can be easier for introverts because you can reply at your own pace. Keep the first meetup short and simple.
Explore our city guides for local options that work well for quieter, more structured socialising.