“ I am a straight talking easy to speak to good listener of a man with a good sense of humour, nothing over the top but enough to have anyone comfortable in my company within minutes, I would like to spend time with fun but responsible people, please no alcoholics as I have no patience for that as it makes me uncomfortable, I am not a heavy drinker and I want people to respect that regardless of how much they drink, I have a sick sense of humour and generally bring oiut the best in anyone, from the mute through to the loud. ”